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Monday, January 30, 2006
Arguments
What is the best way to resolve arguments with brothers and sisters? If I got insulted, I would walk away quietly. I don't like to get into arguments because I am tired of it. However, the bad feeling does not go away. Any good suggestions?
4 comments:
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For me, It is best to first deal it personally with God (to resolve the anger and bad feelings). When I feel I am already in control of bad feelings, I then find a suitable time to approach that person to tell him/her that I actually didn't feel good about this or that comment... in a nice and loving way..
If there's a big gap between the two, pray together (if you can put your hand on him or her (body touch), it would even be better).. Or take a personal 聖餐 together too will be great!
I don't think you have arguement with people often, why you are tired of it already!? I agree with with 米迦's 聖餐 idea, we should argue sometime so we can have buffet together ... ... Back to you question. I think walk away is good. But to ease your bad feeling, I think it is good to communicate. If face-to-face is hard, email him/her politely about what you feel. I think any reasonable person will reply you with respect.
4 comments:
For me,
It is best to first deal it personally with God (to resolve the anger and bad feelings). When I feel I am already in control of bad feelings, I then find a suitable time to approach that person to tell him/her that I actually didn't feel good about this or that comment... in a nice and loving way..
If there's a big gap between the two, pray together (if you can put your hand on him or her (body touch), it would even be better).. Or take a personal 聖餐 together too will be great!
So how would you do usually?
I don't think you have arguement with people often, why you are tired of it already!? I agree with with 米迦's 聖餐 idea, we should argue sometime so we can have buffet together ... ... Back to you question. I think walk away is good. But to ease your bad feeling, I think it is good to communicate. If face-to-face is hard, email him/her politely about what you feel. I think any reasonable person will reply you with respect.
"I agree with with 米迦's 聖餐 idea, we should argue sometime so we can have buffet together "
Wahahahahaaaa... Never thought it could be thought from that perspective.....
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