Tuesday, January 31, 2006

A Christian who is afraid of ...

一個怕老婆的基督徒, 是否不符合上帝的心意. 好奇問一問, 和本人無關 ...
A Christian who is afraid of his wife, is this against God's will!?

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

why do u think it is against God's will? Tell us more la.... =)

Sammy Cafe said...

Don't know how to start ... marriage relationship is difficult to explain in general ...

Anonymous said...

Ooo... tell me more la.. you are experienced in this "field" mah... =)

I find that the young men who are dating in my church are afraid of their girlfriends.

There are also couples in my church. I like those couples more... cos the men are not showing afraid of their wives as the young men who are dating.

To me, men should be leading, and loving... they can be "afraid" in terms of afraid not loving their wives enough as God demanded... but the "leading" should be in balance with this "afraidness of not loving enough"... if not, the man would react as a timid man who is just afraid of his wife...

So, Sammy Cafe, how are you and your wife? =) Wanna know more... =p

Sammy Cafe said...

I and my wife are doing pretty OK. I once make this GREAT wisdom: Dating couples learn how to love together. Married couples learn how to live together. Parent learn how to raise (child) together. For us, in each new stage we often starts with more argument. We learn from our mistakes then live in peace again.